This may help in our situation, but he's been very adamant about not liking to spank me. He's had it drilled into him since birth not to ever strike a woman. How do I get him past that?
A fear of hurting partners is a common concern for many men, most men are pretty nice, and very last thing we want to come across as is a brute.
But want if the very first smack was just a tap? Light enough that there was no question of being mistaken for violence. What if the taps were playful, and each one was met with encouragement. "Another one, please Sir!"
Start off with taps that are ridiculously gentle. Explain to him the effect they have on your body. How you feel his touch ripple across your bum like waves on a pond. Tell him you can feel his taps in your clit.
Get him used to the idea of tapping your bottom as a kind of foreplay. Break that connection in his mind that spanking is violence. As with any aspect of sex, sometimes you have to spend a bit of time reassuring to build comfort. Once you do, maybe he'll begin to tap a bit harder, because it likes the way it makes you moan...
This may help in our situation, but he's been very adamant about not liking to spank me. He's had it drilled into him since birth not to ever strike a woman. How do I get him past that?
A fear of hurting partners is a common concern for many men, most men are pretty nice, and very last thing we want to come across as is a brute.
But want if the very first smack was just a tap? Light enough that there was no question of being mistaken for violence. What if the taps were playful, and each one was met with encouragement. "Another one, please Sir!"
Start off with taps that are ridiculously gentle. Explain to him the effect they have on your body. How you feel his touch ripple across your bum like waves on a pond. Tell him you can feel his taps in your clit.
Get him used to the idea of tapping your bottom as a kind of foreplay. Break that connection in his mind that spanking is violence. As with any aspect of sex, sometimes you have to spend a bit of time reassuring to build comfort. Once you do, maybe he'll begin to tap a bit harder, because it likes the way it makes you moan...
This may just be the way to do this! Thank you!
I will update!